googling wedding stuff tends to result in weird links.. such as this:
with an apple and a knife, stand before a mirror. slice the apple into pieces. stick a pieces on the point of the knife and hold it over your left shoulder. as you gaze into the mirror, you will see a vision of your future spouse appear behind you to take the apple.
creepy!!!! i don't like mirrors to begin with (all those bloody mary stories growing up didn't help at all..) so this would freak me out. i have shivers up my spine just thinking about it. ugh..